Alright, ladies, buckle up! We’re diving into a topic that makes us all do the dramatic side-eye , Haram Relationships. You know, the ones that sneak into your life looking all charming and romantic but end up serving you a giant plate of guilt with a side of spiritual turmoil. But hey, the Quran’s got your back, and I’m here to show you how!
Let’s get this halal party started!
1. Know Your Worth , You Are A Queen
The first thing you gotta tattoo on your heart is this: You are priceless. The Quran says:
“Indeed, the most noble of you in the sight of Allah is the most righteous of you.” (Quran 49:13)
You are not just anybody. You are a beloved servant of Allah. So, before you go handing over your precious heart to some dude who can’t even spell ‘Taqwa,’ remember you deserve a king who fears Allah. Period.
2. Intentions Matter, So Make Them Pure
Girl, let’s be real. Sometimes, we jump into conversations thinking, “It’s just friendly chat!” But is it really? The Quran advises:
“And do not approach unlawful sexual intercourse. Indeed, it is ever an immorality and is evil as a way.” (Quran 17:32)
Check your intentions at the door. If it’s not leading you closer to Allah, it’s only leading you astray. So, if Mr. Texts-at-Midnight is trying to make his way into your DMs, block him like your life depends on it!
3. Keep It Halal Or Nothing At All
Allah made things simple. Halal relationships are blessed; haram ones are cursed. And honey, you don’t want the drama that comes with that curse! The Quran says:
“And those who guard their chastity.” (Quran 23:5)
Protect your heart like it’s the last gold bar on earth. If he’s not ready to commit through a halal path, he’s not worth a single second of your time.
4. Surround Yourself With Righteous Friends
You are the company you keep. If your squad’s motto is “Yolo, let’s do haram stuff!” then girl, it’s time to find a new crew. The Quran warns us:
“O you who have believed, fear Allah and be with those who are true.” (Quran 9:119)
True friends will hype you up for Jannah, not drag you to a burning pit of bad decisions. Choose wisely.
5. Dua Is Your Secret Weapon
Oh, the power of Dua! Never underestimate it. When your heart feels weak or you’re tempted to reply to that sweet but dangerous text, turn to Allah. The Quran beautifully says:
“Call upon Me; I will respond to you.” (Quran 40:60)
Spiritual protection is your strongest shield. Make Dua your daily habit.
6. Keep Your Eyes On The Real Prize
What’s better? Temporary attention from a random dude or eternal happiness with Allah’s blessings? Exactly. The Quran reminds us:
“But the enduring good deeds are better to your Lord for reward and better for one’s hope.” (Quran 18:46)
Focus on pleasing Allah, and watch your life transform for the better.
7. Marriage Is The Halal Way
Let’s face it , if he’s serious about you, he’ll do it the right way. Allah made marriage beautiful, not complicated. As mentioned in the Quran:
“And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them.” (Quran 30:21)
Don’t settle for anything less than pure love, respect, and halal commitment.
Final Thoughts
Avoiding haram relationships isn’t about restricting your freedom; it’s about elevating your soul. Allah wants you to be happy, protected, and at peace. And when you follow His guidance, you’re setting yourself up for the ultimate glow-up , both in this life and the next.
So, let’s do this, queens! Comment below with your own tips and share this with every sister who needs to read this!