You know that one friend who drains your energy faster than your phone on 2%? Or that “close” companion who low-key throws shade with every compliment? Yeah, them. If you’ve been feeling that tug in your heart, wondering if it’s time to say “buh-bye” to certain toxic ties, you’re not alone. And guess what? The Quran, yes, that divine guidebook for slaying life, has a lot to say about this.
Ready for some soul-refreshing clarity? Let’s dive into the 7 Quran-Backed Signs it’s time to cut that cord (with love and wisdom, of course).
1. They Pull You Away from Allah
If someone constantly encourages you to skip prayers, indulge in haram, or live life like there’s no accountability, it’s a major red flag. The Quran says:
“And keep yourself patient with those who call upon their Lord in the morning and the evening, seeking His countenance.” (Surah Al-Kahf 18:28)
Translation? Stay close to those who remind you of Allah, not the ones who make you forget Him faster than a TikTok trend.
2. They Celebrate Your Sins
If your “friend” cheers you on when you’re backbiting, lying, or doing things that make your soul uneasy, it’s time for a reality check. The Quran warns:
“And cooperate in righteousness and piety, but do not cooperate in sin and aggression.” (Surah Al-Ma’idah 5:2)
Sis, anyone hyping you up to sin isn’t your cheerleader, they’re a plot twist in your story.
3. They’re Masters of Drama and Gossip
You know the type. Always in someone’s business, stirring the pot like it’s their side hustle. But the Quran literally calls this out:
“A slanderer, going about with malicious gossip.” (Surah Al-Qalam 68:11)
Save your energy, and don’t let their drama become your trauma.
4. They Disrespect Your Boundaries
Boundaries aren’t just a buzzword, they’re self-care endorsed by the Quran. If someone constantly crosses yours, it’s a problem. The Quran says:
“And do not approach immoralities – what is apparent of them and what is concealed.” (Surah Al-An’am 6:151)
Your peace of mind is sacred. Guard it like it’s your favorite hijab in a windstorm.
5. They Mock Your Faith
If someone mocks your hijab, your prayers, or your efforts to stay halal, it’s not cute, it’s toxic. Allah says:
“And when you see those who engage in [offensive] discourse concerning Our verses, then turn away from them.” (Surah Al-An’am 6:68)
Translation: You don’t need that negativity. Walk away, and don’t look back.
6. They Drain Your Emotional Energy
Feeling emotionally exhausted after every interaction? That’s a red flag waving harder than a fan at a K-pop concert. The Quran reminds us:
“Do not burden a soul beyond that it can bear.” (Surah Al-Baqarah 2:286)
It’s okay to choose your sanity over forced connections. Protect your vibe.
7. They’re Just Not Good for Your Soul
Sometimes, you can’t pinpoint why, but you know someone’s energy just isn’t right for you. Trust that gut feeling. Allah guides us:
“Indeed, the company of the righteous will guide you to righteousness.” (Paraphrased from Surah Al-Tawbah 9:119)
Your soul knows who feeds it and who depletes it. Listen closely.
Time to Cut or Mend? Now, don’t ghost people like it’s a trend, the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) taught us to be kind and just. But sometimes, the most merciful thing you can do (for them and for you) is to let go. With dua, honesty, and grace.
Remember, letting go doesn’t mean hate. It means choosing peace over chaos, faith over peer pressure, and growth over stagnation.
So, Queen, which ties are you ready to cut for the sake of your soul?