Alright, let’s be real, sister. Heartbreak feels like your chest is being squeezed by a python who moonlights as a bodybuilder. It’s like all those cheesy love songs suddenly make sense, and your pillow knows all your secrets because it’s soaked with your tears. And while the world tells you to just “move on” and “be strong,” you’re out here scrolling motivational quotes and binge-watching sad TikToks. But what if I told you the answers you’re looking for have been waiting for you all along… in the Holy Quran?
Yes, that’s right! The Ultimate Guide to inner peace and healing was with you this whole time. So, if you’re ready to level up, stop moping around, and embrace the divine wisdom Allah has gifted us, then buckle up! Let’s dive into the Quran’s guide to moving on.
1. Accepting Qadr (Destiny): It’s All Part of the Plan
Let’s start with the hardest pill to swallow: What happened was meant to happen. The Quran reminds us:
“No disaster strikes upon the earth or among yourselves except that it is in a register before We bring it into being, indeed that, for Allah, is easy.” , (Surah Al-Hadid, 57:22)
Translation? Chill out. What’s written for you will find you. If someone’s been removed from your life, it’s because Allah has something better in store. So, get ready to upgrade, sis!
2. Cry It Out, But Not Forever, Healing Through Dua
Girl, cry if you need to. The Quran doesn’t tell you to be a robot. But once you’ve let it out, turn to Allah and pour your heart out to Him. Remember, even the Prophets made Dua when they were distressed.
“And We will surely test you with something of fear and hunger and a loss of wealth and lives and fruits, but give good tidings to the patient.” , (Surah Al-Baqarah, 2:155)
Your pain is a test, and your patience is the answer sheet. So, cry to Allah. Trust me, His comfort hits different.
3. Surround Yourself With Righteous Company
You know what they say, misery loves company. But you know what else loves company? Healing. And it heals best when you surround yourself with people who remind you of Allah. The Quran advises:
“And keep yourself patient [by being] with those who call upon their Lord morning and evening, seeking His countenance.” , (Surah Al-Kahf, 18:28)
Your friends should lift you up, not drown you in negativity. Ditch the toxic crowd and find your spiritual tribe!
4. Distract Yourself With Good Deeds (Because Karma? Nah, Ajr!)
Instead of stalking your ex’s social media like it’s your new hobby, how about channeling that energy into something productive? Volunteer, help someone in need, or just be kind. Why? Because Allah promises reward for every good deed.
“Whoever does righteousness, it is for his own soul; and whoever does evil, it is against it. And your Lord is not ever unjust to His servants.” , (Surah Fussilat, 41:46)
So, let go of the drama and focus on the divine rewards.
5. Remind Yourself of Allah’s Infinite Mercy
Sometimes heartbreak makes you feel unlovable. But guess what? Allah’s love is far greater than any human’s could ever be. And He’s always there for you.
“So verily, with the hardship, there is relief.” , (Surah Ash-Sharh, 94:6)
Sis, your broken heart is just a part of your story, not the whole book.
6. Forgiveness Isn’t Just For Them, It’s For You!
Holding grudges is like drinking poison and expecting the other person to die. Forgive them, not because they deserve it, but because your heart deserves peace.
“But pardon them and overlook their misdeeds. Indeed, Allah loves the doers of good.” , (Surah Al-Imran, 3:134)
Cut the chains, sis. Free your soul.
7. Trust Allah’s Timing and Move Forward With Tawakkul
The ultimate step: Leave it to Allah. Put your trust in Him fully and genuinely. You’re not meant to carry the weight of the world on your shoulders.
“And when you have decided, then rely upon Allah. Indeed, Allah loves those who rely [upon Him].” , (Surah Al-Imran, 3:159)
Just breathe, let go, and let Him handle the rest. It’s His plan, and trust me, it’s better than anything you could ever imagine.
Final Words: You’ve Got This, Queen!
Look, heartbreak isn’t easy. But Allah’s guidance is stronger than any pain you feel. So, put on your spiritual armor, trust the process, and step into the new chapter of your life. And who knows? Maybe this heartbreak is just the plot twist you needed to become the best version of yourself.
Ready to embrace healing through the Quran? Let me know your thoughts in the comments below! And if you know someone who needs to read this, share it like it’s hot!