Ladies, let’s be real. The struggle of finding the right partner is REALER than your aunties’ unsolicited rishta proposals. You pray, you ponder, and then BOOM,a walking red flag slides into your DMs. But what if Allah is already sending you signs, and you’re just too busy dodging creepy uncles at weddings to notice?
If you’re serious about choosing your life partner the Quran-approved way, pay close attention. Because if you ignore these signs, you might just miss out on the soulmate Allah has tailor-made for you!
1. Your Heart Feels at Peace (Surah Ar-Ra’d 13:28)
When you talk to him, does your heart feel like it just heard Surah Ar-Rahman being recited at Fajr? Or does it feel like a caffeine overdose on an empty stomach? Allah says, “Verily, in the remembrance of Allah do hearts find rest.” If your heart finds true peace when thinking of him, that’s divine confirmation, sis.
2. He Respects Your Boundaries (Surah Al-Ma’idah 5:2)
If he’s sliding into your DMs at 3 AM with “Salam, you up?” , run like the Day of Judgment is tomorrow. A man who is serious about you respects your limits and values your modesty. Allah commands believers to uphold each other’s honor,so if he’s pushing boundaries, he’s pushing himself out of your life.
3. He Encourages Your Deen, Not Just Your Looks (Surah Al-Baqarah 2:221)
“MashaAllah, you look so pious in hijab.” That’s cute, but does he remind you to pray when you’re binge-watching Netflix? The right partner will elevate your faith, not just compliment your eyeliner skills.
4. His Character Screams ‘Husband Material’ (Surah Al-Qalam 68:4)
Allah praised the Prophet Muhammad (PBUH) for his exemplary character. If your man is patient, kind, and honest (instead of just having good hair and WiFi), he’s already winning in Allah’s eyes!
5. Istikhara Gives You No Nightmares (Sahih Bukhari 1166)
Ever done Istikhara and had a horror-movie-level dream about him? Yeah… might wanna reconsider. When Allah guides you, He grants clarity,not confusion. If you feel uneasy after Istikhara, listen to that divine gut feeling.
6. He Respects Your Family (Surah Al-Isra 17:23)
Ladies, if he disrespects your parents now, imagine what he’ll do when you burn his eggs. Allah commands kindness to parents, and a true believer follows through. If he’s rolling his eyes at your dad’s questions, that’s your cue to roll out.
7. He’s Financially & Emotionally Stable (Surah An-Nisa 4:5)
“We’ll live on love and fresh air.” Sister, no. Allah advises men to be financially responsible. If he’s dodging career discussions but flexing AirPods, Houston, we have a problem. Emotional stability is just as crucial,no one wants a husband who acts like a TikTok drama king.
8. You Can See a Future With Him (Surah Al-Furqan 25:74)
The Quran describes spouses as “a source of comfort and mercy.” If you can’t even picture a road trip together without wanting to block him on WhatsApp, you might want to rethink this. Marriage is for eternity, not just a wedding photoshoot.
9. He Brings You Closer to Jannah (Surah At-Tahrim 66:6)
The ultimate test: Is he helping you become a better Muslimah, or is he the reason you’re making endless excuses? A man who truly loves you will guide you toward Allah, not away from Him.
So… What Now?
If you’re nodding your head like “Ya Allah, I need this kind of man!”,here’s the good news: Allah never leaves a sincere heart unanswered. But preparation is key. Are YOU ready for the husband you’re praying for?
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Did These Signs Resonate?
Which sign stood out to you the most? Drop a comment below,let’s help each other on this journey!