We get it. You’ve seen those #CoupleGoals posts, and let’s be real, some of them look like straight-up fairytales. But deep down, you want something real, something blessed. A marriage that doesn’t just look good on Instagram but actually feels good in real life.
And guess what? The Quran has already spilled all the secrets. So if you’re ready to build a marriage that is as solid as your dua list, keep reading. Because we’re about to break down the 10 signs that your marriage will be divinely blessed, straight from the Book of Ultimate Wisdom.
1. You Both Prioritize Allah Over Each Other (Yes, Really!)
If your relationship is built on anything other than the love of Allah, sis, it’s built on shaky ground. The Quran reminds us:
“And of His signs is that He created for you from yourselves mates that you may find tranquility in them, and He placed between you affection and mercy.” (Surah Ar-Rum 30:21)
Translation? Love is a gift from Allah. If you and your spouse seek His pleasure first, He will bless your bond beyond your wildest dreams.
2. He’s Not Just a ‘Good Guy’, He’s God-Conscious
A man who fears Allah will never mistreat you. The Quran says:
“The best among you are those who are best to their wives.” (Tirmidhi 1162)
If he’s more concerned about flexing his muscles than flexing his Taqwa, girl, you might want to rethink that Nikah.
3. You Respect Each Other’s Boundaries (Because, Duh!)
A marriage thrives when both partners know where to draw the line. Allah advises in the Quran:
“Do not approach unlawful sexual relations. Indeed, it is an immorality and an evil way.” (Surah Al-Isra 17:32)
If your love story started with a halal situationship, you’re already ahead of the game.
4. You Talk Like Adults, Not Like A Reality TV Couple
Communication is everything. If you’re solving problems with screaming matches instead of wisdom, you might want to open the Quran instead of your Instagram DMs. The Quran literally commands us:
“And speak to people good [words]…” (Surah Al-Baqarah 2:83)
Screaming “I’m done!” during every disagreement is not what that verse meant.
5. You Make Dua for Each Other, Not Just for Designer Bags
A man who prays for you before he prays with you? That’s the real deal. The Quran says:
“Our Lord, grant us from among our spouses and offspring comfort to our eyes and make us an example for the righteous.” (Surah Al-Furqan 25:74)
If he’s not making dua for you, sis, is he even that into you?
6. He Treats You Like a Queen (Because Islam Told Him To)
Islamic marriage isn’t about control, it’s about care. If he treats you like his sidekick instead of his partner, remind him of this hadith:
“The most perfect believer in faith is the one who is best in conduct, and the best of you are those who are best to their wives.” (Ibn Majah 1977)
7. You Both Apologize Without the Eye-Roll
Saying “I’m sorry” isn’t a sign of weakness, it’s a sign of wisdom. The Quran reminds us:
“But if you pardon and overlook and forgive – then indeed, Allah is Forgiving and Merciful.” (Surah At-Taghabun 64:14)
A marriage where “sorry” is used more than “whatever”? That’s a marriage set to last.
8. You Solve Problems Before Running to Social Media
If you’re subtweeting each other instead of solving problems, let’s just say… yikes. The Quran says:
“And if you fear dissension between the two, send an arbitrator from his people and an arbitrator from her people.” (Surah An-Nisa 4:35)
Translation: Call an elder, not Twitter.
9. You Keep the ‘Halal Love’ Alive
Newsflash: Islam is not against romance! The Prophet (PBUH) himself used to race with Aisha (RA) and call her by cute nicknames. If your idea of romance is “I said I love you at the Nikah, didn’t I?”, it’s time for an upgrade.
10. You Invest in Learning More About Marriage
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