So, you’re dreaming about your fairytale wedding, the perfect soulmate, and maybe even those Instagram-worthy matching outfits. But let’s be honest, before you dive into marriage and a lifetime of “What’s for dinner?”, it’s time to strengthen something way more important than your color palette: your Imaan (faith). Because trust me, girl, marriage is not just about candlelight dinners and “couple goals” selfies. It’s about patience, sacrifice, and a whole lot of dua.
But don’t stress. The Quran has all the cheat codes you need. Ready to level up your spiritual game before saying “I do”? Let’s go!
1. Know Yourself Before You Know Him
Before you start wondering if he’s “the one,” ask yourself: “Do I even know who I am in the eyes of Allah?” Allah says:
“And do not be like those who forgot Allah, so He made them forget themselves.” (Quran 59:19)
Mic drop. If you’re disconnected from Allah, you’re disconnected from your true self. So, spend time understanding your purpose. Reflect. Pray. Journal your spiritual goals. Because knowing yourself means you’ll know what to look for in a partner who uplifts your faith, not just your feed.
2. Pray Like You Mean It
Girl, your salah (prayer) is your lifeline. If you’re hitting the snooze button on Fajr but expect to wake up for future marriage goals, think again. Allah says:
“Indeed, prayer prohibits immorality and wrongdoing.” (Quran 29:45)
Translation? Prayer is your spiritual armor. So, pray like your future depends on it, because it does. Build a habit now, so when marriage gets real (like “why are his socks on the floor?” real), your patience is powered by prayer.
3. Guard Your Heart Like It’s a Rare Gem
Modern dating culture? It’s a trap. The Quran reminds us:
“And do not approach unlawful sexual intercourse. Indeed, it is ever an immorality and is evil as a way.” (Quran 17:32)
Translation? Stop entertaining every “Hey, beautiful” in your DMs. Your heart is precious. Guard it fiercely. Wait for the one who values your worth in both this life and the next.
4. Purify Your Intentions (Yes, Even for Marriage)
Why do you want to get married? For love? Companionship? Instagram likes? Allah says:
“And they were not commanded except to worship Allah, [being] sincere to Him in religion.” (Quran 98:5)
Check yourself. Purify your intentions. Marriage is an act of worship. It’s about building a home that echoes with love, laughter, and dhikr (remembrance of Allah). So, set your niyyah (intention) straight, and let that guide your choices.
5. Learn Patience Now, Not Later
Newsflash: Your future spouse will annoy you. It’s inevitable. So, flex your patience muscles now. Allah promises:
“Indeed, Allah is with the patient.” (Quran 2:153)
Patience isn’t just about waiting for “the one” but enduring the everyday battles, like not flipping out when he forgets your anniversary (hypothetically, of course). Practice patience with family, friends, and even that slow barista. Your future self will thank you.
6. Level Up Your Knowledge
How can you lead a marriage based on the Quran if you don’t know what’s in it? Allah commands:
“Say, ‘Are those who know equal to those who do not know?'” (Quran 39:9)
Time to hit the books. Attend Islamic classes, read tafsir, and learn about rights and responsibilities in marriage. Ignorance isn’t bliss, it’s a recipe for drama. Empower yourself with knowledge, and you’ll walk into marriage with confidence, not confusion.
7. Dua Like Your Life Depends on It (Because It Does)
Don’t just swipe and hope for the best. Talk to Allah. Ask Him for a spouse who strengthens your Imaan. The Quran encourages:
“And your Lord says, ‘Call upon Me; I will respond to you.'” (Quran 40:60)
Pour your heart into dua. Cry. Beg. Be real with Allah. Because no matchmaker beats the One who knows your soul inside out.
Final Thoughts?
Girl, preparing for marriage isn’t just about the perfect dress or matching crockery. It’s about preparing your soul for one of life’s biggest tests and blessings. So, strengthen your Imaan now, and when the time comes, you’ll walk down that aisle with more than just a pretty face, you’ll walk with confidence, faith, and purpose.
Because a heart anchored in the Quran? That’s forever.
Ready to glow up your Imaan? Start today, queen.