Let’s be real for a second. We’ve all been there, swooning over the “perfect” person, thinking this is it, only to have our heart served back to us on a silver platter with a side of ghosting. Ouch. And while you’re curled up, binge-watching dramas and questioning life choices, a tiny voice whispers, “Maybe there’s more to love than just…love?”
Well, spoiler alert: The Quran has been dropping truth bombs about love before it was cool. Because love without Allah? That’s like a cupcake without frosting. Cute, but seriously lacking.
So, grab your chai and let’s dive into the 7 moments the Quran gently (and sometimes not-so-gently) reminded us that love without Allah is basically a heart-shaped illusion.
1. The Ultimate Love Test
“And [yet], among the people are those who take other than Allah as equals [to Him]. They love them as they [should] love Allah. But those who believe are stronger in love for Allah.” (Quran 2:165)
Translation: If your heart is giving out VIP passes to everything but Allah, you might want to check the guest list. True love means putting Allah at the center, because that’s the love that lasts longer than your crush’s gym selfie phase.
Real Talk: If he texts you “wyd” at 2 AM but disappears when you mention halal relationships, it’s time to refocus.
2. Chasing Shadows
“The life of this world is but amusement and diversion; the Hereafter is better for those who fear Allah. Will you not then reason?” (Quran 6:32)
Let’s face it, sometimes love feels like an endless Instagram scroll, fun but fleeting. The Quran reminds us that this world is a highlight reel. Real, lasting love is the one that survives beyond the ‘likes’ and into the Hereafter.
Soul Check: Are you chasing real love, or just aesthetic vibes?
3. The Unseen Bond
“And He placed between you affection and mercy.” (Quran 30:21)
The Quran says it straight, true love is about more than heart eyes emojis. It’s affection and mercy. Meaning, love is holding hands and holding space for each other’s flaws, guided by the mercy Allah teaches us.
Red Flag Alert: If it’s all passion but no patience, that’s not love, sis. That’s an episode of a reality TV show.
4. When Love Hurts
“And of mankind is he who sells himself, seeking the pleasure of Allah.” (Quran 2:207)
Sometimes love feels like sacrifice, and that’s okay, but it should never mean sacrificing your faith. The greatest love story is the one where you’re ready to give your heart to Allah first, trusting He’ll write your story better than you ever could.
Pro Tip: If he makes you choose between him and Allah, choose the One who already chose you.
5. Temporary vs. Eternal
“Whatever you have will end, but what Allah has is lasting.” (Quran 16:96)
Crushes fade. Beauty fades. Even the thrill of “good morning” texts fades. But love connected to Allah? That’s eternal. That’s legacy. That’s real.
Ask Yourself: Is this love helping me build my eternity or just distracting me from it?
6. The Love Mirror
“Indeed, Allah does not change the condition of a people until they change what is in themselves.” (Quran 13:11)
Want true love? Start with self-love. The Quran reminds us that inner growth attracts the right kind of relationships. Fix your connection with Allah, and watch how the right hearts find their way to you.
Glow Up Tip: Work on your heart like it’s a masterpiece, because it is.
7. The Love That Elevates
“Say, [O Muhammad], ‘If you should love Allah, then follow me, so Allah will love you.'” (Quran 3:31)
Here’s the secret: Want to be loved? Love Allah first. Follow the Prophet’s example. That’s the love that transforms, elevates, and actually means something.
Final Note: The best love story starts when you fall for the One who never stops loving you back.
So, What Now?
If you’re feeling called out (in a loving way, of course), it’s because deep down, you know you deserve more. Real love. Lasting love. A love that’s written by the Best of Planners.
Start with Allah. Fall in love with His words. Live by His guidance. And trust that He’ll write a love story for you that’s better than any fairytale.
Because love without Allah? That’s not love. It’s just a placeholder.
But love with Allah? That’s forever.
Now, go be the queen who knows her worth, and whose love is as deep as her faith.
Feeling inspired? Share this with your girls and remind them that the greatest love story starts with the One who loves us first.