Alright, girl, let’s get real. You’re amazing. You’re intelligent, beautiful, and strong. But why, oh why, are you running after some guy who treats you like a Monday morning instead of the whole Eid celebration you truly are? Let’s break this down with some good ol’ Quranic wisdom, shall we?
1. Your Dignity Is a Gift from Allah (SWT)
Look, chasing someone who doesn’t value you is like throwing diamonds at someone who thinks they’re just rocks. The Quran reminds us of our worth: “Indeed, the most noble of you in the sight of Allah is the most righteous of you.” (Quran 49:13). Your dignity is priceless, so why hand it over to someone who doesn’t even care to appreciate it?
2. Trust Allah’s Plan, Not Your Desperation
You’re losing sleep over a guy who leaves you on read, while Allah has written a beautiful story for you that’s just waiting to unfold. “But perhaps you hate a thing and it is good for you; and perhaps you love a thing and it is bad for you. And Allah Knows, while you know not.” (Quran 2:216). So, stop trying to edit Allah’s masterpiece with your temporary pen of desperation.
3. Your Happiness Shouldn’t Be Dependent on Someone Else
It’s exhausting, isn’t it? Trying to force someone to care. Newsflash: That’s not love, that’s just a drama you’ve been scripting in your head. The Quran says, “And We have already created man and know what his soul whispers to him, and We are closer to him than [his] jugular vein.” (Quran 50:16). If Allah is closer to you than anyone else, why look for love and acceptance from someone who couldn’t care less?
4. Allah Has Better Plans for You – So Stop Settling!
Chasing someone who doesn’t appreciate you is settling for a lesser version of what Allah has destined for you. “And whoever fears Allah – He will make for him a way out and will provide for him from where he does not expect.” (Quran 65:2-3). Sister, let go of what’s hurting you. Trust Allah, because He’s planning something mind-blowingly amazing for you.
5. Self-Respect Is Non-Negotiable
Girl, you are worth more than all the world’s treasures combined. And chasing someone who doesn’t value you? That’s like swapping a palace for a paper shack. Allah commands us to “not weaken and do not grieve, and you will be superior if you are [true] believers.” (Quran 3:139). Why waste your energy on someone who clearly isn’t part of your beautiful journey?
Final Thoughts
Your journey to self-respect and true happiness starts with understanding your own worth. So, stop chasing someone who doesn’t see your value. Instead, chase the beautiful connection you can have with Allah. Because guess what? That’s the real love story worth writing.
And the next time that guy leaves you on read? Smile. You’ve already moved on to something way better.
Stay amazing, stay blessed!