Ah, humility, a trait we all think we have, but let’s be real, how many of us are walking around feeling like we’re the main character in a Netflix series? Before you start updating your Instagram bio to “Most Humble Muslim in the Room,” let’s sit down and reflect on what the Quran says about humility and how we can actually embody it in our daily lives. Spoiler: It’s not about how soft-spoken you are or how often you say “Alhamdulillah” in a conversation. It’s about staying grounded, even when life (and your ego) tries to lift you up too high.
What Does the Quran Say About Humility?
The Quran is packed with lessons on humility, and no, they’re not subtle. Allah (SWT) doesn’t sugarcoat it:
“And do not walk upon the earth arrogantly. Indeed, you will never tear the earth [apart], and you will never reach the mountains in height.”
(Surah Al-Isra, 17:37)
Translation? Stop acting like you’re 7 feet tall and the world revolves around you. Even if you have the latest iPhone or 100k TikTok followers, you’re not going to outgrow the mountains. Humility starts with realizing you’re not the center of the universe, and that’s okay.
Another gem:
“Indeed, Allah does not like the arrogant and boastful.”
(Surah Luqman, 31:18)
So, next time you’re tempted to humblebrag about fasting for 30 days straight without complaining (okay, maybe just once or twice), remember that Allah prefers quiet acts of humility over loud declarations of righteousness.
Why Is Staying Humble So Hard?
Let’s face it: We live in a world where self-promotion is practically a survival skill. Got a job? Post it. Made biryani from scratch? Post it. Went to the masjid after Fajr? Post it with #BlessedLife.
But humility isn’t about pretending you don’t exist or hiding your achievements. It’s about remembering who gave you those achievements in the first place. That’s right, Allah. When we start attributing our success to our own brilliance, we fall into the trap of arrogance. And let me tell you, arrogance is the ultimate spiritual buzzkill.
Practical Tips to Stay Grounded
Okay, enough lecturing. Let’s get into the fun part: actionable tips to help you stay humble without feeling like you’re stuck in a constant guilt trip.
1. Remember Your Origins
The Quran reminds us of our humble beginnings:
“He created man from a sperm-drop; then at once, he is a clear adversary.”
(Surah An-Nahl, 16:4)
Yup, that’s right. We all started as a tiny drop. Not exactly the glamorous backstory you’d want for a movie, huh? Keeping this in mind can help you avoid taking yourself too seriously.
2. Do Acts of Kindness Without Posting About Them
In today’s age, it’s tempting to document every good deed. But the Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) taught us that the best acts are those done in secret. So, next time you help someone, resist the urge to tweet about it. Your reward is with Allah, not your followers.
3. Surround Yourself with Humble People
Ever noticed how being around certain people can inflate your ego faster than a helium balloon? Choose friends who remind you of your place, not in a mean way, but in a way that keeps you grounded. A good squad will keep you humble and laughing at your own flaws.
4. Laugh at Yourself
The Prophet (peace be upon him) had a sense of humor, and so should you. Being able to laugh at your own mistakes is a sign of humility. Forgot to pray Asr and realized it halfway through a Netflix binge? Own up to it, fix it, and move on without the dramatic self-pity party.
5. Focus on Gratitude
Gratitude is humility’s best friend. When you’re busy thanking Allah for what you have, there’s little room for arrogance. Start your day by saying Alhamdulillah for the little things: your morning coffee, your health, or even the fact that you found matching socks.
Humility: The Ultimate Glow-Up
Here’s the thing: Humility isn’t about dimming your light; it’s about knowing where that light comes from. When you’re humble, you’re not only pleasing Allah but also making yourself more likable. Nobody enjoys being around someone who acts like they invented breathing.
The Quran shows us time and time again that humility isn’t a weakness, it’s a strength. It’s the ability to acknowledge that everything we have is a blessing from Allah, and nothing more. So, let’s stop walking around like we’re the main character and start living like we’re part of a much bigger story.
Final Dua: Stay Grounded, Stay Blessed
Let’s end this with a quick dua:
“Ya Allah, keep me humble, keep me grounded, and keep me far, far away from the trap of arrogance. Let me always remember that all good comes from You, and all glory belongs to You.”
Now go forth, young humble Muslims, and conquer the world, not with arrogance, but with grace and gratitude. And maybe, just maybe, leave the humblebragging to someone else.